Vidi, Perlukah Menembak Untuk Mendapatkannya?

Vidi, langkah final apa yang Anda lakukan ketika lagi PDKT?

 

Saya yakin 100% orang akan menjawab menembak sang wanita atau
menyatakan perasaan padanya.

 

Kadang dilakukan dengan cara yang rapih dan romantis. Anda mengajaknya
ke restoran yang dia suka, lengkap dengan banyak lilin dan lantunan lagu-lagu
favoritnya. Lalu setelah selesai makan, tiba-tiba sang waiter mengantarkan
kotak kado dengan pita cantik. Ketika dia buka, isinya adalah boneka teddy
bear yang memegang kartu bertulisan :

 

"Aku sudah menyukaimu semenjak awal kita bertemu, bolehkah aku memilikimu?"

 

Kadang ada juga yang menyampaikan dengan cara yang gelagapan.
Misalnya menembak via SMS, chatting, atau e-mail karena merasa takut
ditolak. Atau kalaupun menyatakannya langsung, kadang ada nada ragu-ragu
seperti, "Eh, kalau ada orang yang deket banget sama kamu, tiba-tiba dia
nyatain ada perasaan lebih dari sekedar teman, respon kamu gimana?"

 

Menembak adalah puncak kepuasan dari usaha PDKT dan awal dari hubungan.
Begitulah pikir kebanyakan orang. Sayang sekali, realita berkata sebaliknya.

Justru menembak lebih sering jadi puncak tragedi PDKT dan juga akhir dari
hubungan yang bahkan belum dimulai.

 

Tahukah Anda bahwa secara statistik nyaris 90% usaha nembak itu gagal
alias ditolak? Alasannya adalah karena wanita TAKUT untuk mengambil
keputusan yang salah. Ada banyak sekali pertimbangannya yang muncul
secara unconscious:

• Jika ia menerima permintaan Anda jadi kekasihnya, lalu hubungan
  itu ternyata berjalan buruk, itu berarti salah dia karena dia yang
  mengijinkan Anda memulainya.
• Jika ia menerima permintaan Anda jadi kekasihnya, lalu beberapa
  hari kemudian ada pria lain yang lebih ganteng/keren menembak
  juga, maka ia jadi menyesal buru-buru pacaran.
• Jika ia menerima permintaan Anda jadi kekasihnya, lalu hubungan
  itu kandas, maka ia jadi kehilangan satu teman baiknya.
• masih banyak lainnya!

Jadi Anda bisa lihat, MENEMBAK justru membuat banyak masalah.

Menyatakan perasaan dan memintanya jadi pacar ketika PDKT itu sama
sekali tidak perlu.

 

Pria Glossy tidak menyerahkan keputusan sepenting itu untuk didiskusikan
dengan sang wanita. Pria Glossy akan tidak MENEMBAK atau MEMINTA
PERSETUJUAN untuk sebuah hubungan cinta. Pria Glossy tidak bertanya
apakah wanita sang gebetan menyukainya atau tidak. Penjelasan
sehubungan ini ada dalam artikel Mengejar Atau Dikejar.

 

Pelajaran penting hari ini adalah Anda wajib STOP MERANCANG
SKENARIO PENEMBAKAN. Karena tembak-menembak hanya boleh
dilakukan jika Anda masih bocah ingusan usia SMA.

 

Menembak itu TIDAK PERLU. Ada banyak cara lain yang lebih manis
dan sehat untuk memulai sebuah hubungan. Jauh lebih tepat menyatakan
perasaan secara intim jika ia SUDAH jadi kekasih Anda, bukannya
SEBELUM dia jadi kekasih Anda.

Pria Glossy itu sangat gentleman.

 

Bukan playboy yang sembarangan menyatakan perasaan pada wanita
yang bukan kekasihnya.

 

Anda mau jadi Glossy Gentleman, 'kan?

 

Salam gentleman,

Lex dePraxis

Hitman System
www.hitmansystem.com

Ruko Sentral Grenvil 2Y
Jl. Tanjung Duren Raya
Jakarta Barat 1140
INDONESIA

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The Power of Bloggers

BLOGGERSUNITE "United We Stand, Divided We Fall" - Aesop You don't need me to tell you that the world has its share of major catastrophes and disasters. The people of Japan are in desperate need of our help & bloggers and other social media participants continue to raise millions of dollars for those in need. I am grateful to say that BloggersUnite.org,  thanks to a large number of bloggers,  has been active in raising funds and awareness for those in need. I am writing to you because there is a story that while it clearly does not rise to the same level of human tragedy, I believe strongly will make a major difference to the future of blogging. Yahoo! recently announced the imminent shut down of MyBlogLog. While this news has been largely ignored by mainstream media, the event is disturbing because it shuts down a major channel of the blogosphere. For years now MyBlogLog has been ignored by Yahoo and now they are shutting it down because it doesn't fit within their corporate strategy. What does a MyBlogLog's closure mean to you? You may think it doesn't mean anything or even think whether they still exist, or whether you even have heard of them,  the truth is that MyBlogLog is a valuable blogging network that distributes tens of millions of visitors to blogs each year. Yahoo! has shown no respect to bloggers through ought its 4 year ownership of the site. Once again they are failing to follow through on promises and responsibilities to bloggers. Perhaps Yahoo believes it has no responsibility to bloggers. The closure of MyBlogLog represents a lack of respect to bloggers who have built tens of thousands of communities on the network and spent countless hours adding MyBlogLog widgets to their blogs Yahoo! has made no attempt to dispose of MyBlogLog, yet it represents an important channel of distribution for blogs. Why you should care? BloggersUnite.org and BlogCatalog are ready, willing and able to take over MyBlogLog and turn MyBlogLog into a valuable tool for bloggers and blog readers. We shared our interest with Yahoo over a year ago to do this. Yahoo ignored our requests to talk to them,  we had a brief conversation, they wanted to know our strategy for making the site more valuable and because we refused, their communications with us ended. So, what difference will it make if I join this event? The more members we have on BloggersUnite.org the greater the positive impact we can make to the world. A combination of BloggersUnite + MyBlogLog + BlogCatalog is "The Right Thing." To-date, together with your help we have saved lives, made material differences in the lives of school kids, raised money for Haiti, helped build clean water wells in Africa, worked with the CDC to raise awareness about STDs, united refugees with their families, worked with Aids.gov to harness the power of the blogosphere on AIDS Awareness Day and we had hundreds of thousand of bloggers unite on Bloggers for Good Day; where bloggers from BloggersUnite were featured on CNN doing good deeds. It makes little sense when people in this world are starving and dying because  they lack clean water that Yahoo,  one of the largest technology companies in the USA,  would shut down an asset that has value.  Why not sell it and give the money to a charity? Their site has value. As Warren Buffet says, "stupid in small things, stupid in big."   I humbly ask that  you please unite with thousands of other bloggers and explain to Yahoo management what would be the "right thing" to do or ad an Action Badge to your blog, or perhaps both.  To do this please click BloggersUnite because unlike Yahoo we are fully aware that when you combine your voice with the voice of other bloggers, that there is no greater force for good in the world today. Best, Antony Berkman  BloggersUnite for Good

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Vidi, Mau tahu rahasia para playboy?

Sebelum Anda meneruskan membaca artikel ini, coba Anda flash back

sebentar ke masa sewaktu Anda masih di bangku SMA atau kuliah.

Saya yakin paling tidak Anda kenal dengan satu pria yang suka

bergonta-ganti pasangan dan berulang kali menyakiti wanita, namun

tetap saja semua wanita ngantri dan berebutan untuk jadi pacarnya.

Malah mungkin beberapa wanita sampai bermusuhan dengan temannya

sendiri hanya karena memperebutkan pria playboy ini.

Tidak peduli betapa buruknya omongan orang-orang tentang si pria

playboy itu, tidak peduli betapa si pria playboy rangkul-rangkulan

dengan wanita-wanita yang berbeda di depan mata mereka sendiri, the

playboy always get the girls.

Sementara Anda si pria tulus dan baik hati hanya bisa kesal dan

berpikir betapa bodohnya wanita-wanita tersebut.

Padahal mereka tahu pria itu adalah playboy yang suka mempermainkan

wanita.

Padahal mereka tahu kalau mereka sampai jadian dengan pria itu

mereka akan patah hati.

Padahal mereka tahu kalau si pria sama sekali tidak layak untuk

mereka.

Padahal kalau ditanya, mereka akan menjawab, "Gak mungkin gue mao

sama playboy kayak gitu!"

Tapi tetap saja, apa yang mereka katakan di mulut lain dengan

tindakan mereka.

Dan Anda hanya bisa bingung dan gak habis pikir, "Why?"

 

Temukan jawabannya di artikel Mengapa Wanita Suka Playboy!

http://hitmansystem.com/tentang-wanita/mengapa-wanita-suka-pria-playboy.html

 

Sahabatmu,

Kei Savourie

Hitman System
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